As I traverse along this journey towards my goals in financial freedom, I’ve come to some realisations that challenge my entire view of what it means to be financially free.
In the beginning, I thought what everything was thinking. To be financially free means to be able to buy anything and everything without worrying about money. The more I started to understand and apply the principles of living within my means, saving and investing, growing and protecting my means, the more I realised that to achieve financial freedom, I need to understand that money is not everything!
Why money is not everything
The paradox of financial freedom is that so long as you cannot have control over your impulse to spend and use up your finances unwisely, no level of earned or passive income will be enough because your human wants are unlimited relative to the resources available.
This is why we keep hearing stories of very rich people who still become bankrupt even when they were worth millions. Mike Tyson, once a top boxing champion spent away all his millions. If you cannot exercise control and understand how your life energy in the form of money is going, then it will be very difficult for you to ever truly achieve financial freedom.
The key to financial freedom is wanting what you need
Financial freedom becomes more of a reality when we see that the key is keeping our wants manageable while fulfilling our needs. The basic human needs are simple. Food, shelter, safety. If you are healthy and can work and have some education, this is generally not a problem. The more basic you keep your needs, the easier it is for your to achieve financial freedom by saving and investing a capital sum sufficient to generate passive income that covers your living expenses.
Many things in life cannot be guaranteed by money. We can buy good healthcare but we cannot buy guaranteed good health. We can buy time with our friends but we cannot buy genuine friendships. We can trade money for time but we cannot take back the time lost if it is not spent on family and true friends.
The more I grow my investments and suffer the occasional delay due to life’s changes such as birth of my daughter and the financial crisis hitting my equity portfolio, the more I realise money is indeed not everything. Money is important, make no mistake about that. It pays for the home, utilities, food, medical costs and transport. But it cannot replace internal happiness generated from having a loving family, committed friends and connected life.
I’ve recently gotten onto facebook and realise it is a great tool for connecting with others we have met in our lives. The older I get, the more I realise these connections start to be more important because we tend not to make many new friends as we age. So keeping existing friends and acquaintances becomes more important because ultimately, we are social creatures that need that social interaction to feel alive and part of the tribe of people.
What has been your insights in financial freedom
Share with Panzer what you’ve learnt in your life that helps or hinders you towards financial freedom.
Be well and prosper.
Celes | EmbraceLiving.Net says:
Hi Panzer! Well said – Money is the means to living a great live, but definitely not the ends. It enables us to lead a better quality life but we should not equate or hinge happiness to this means. Great post and thanks for sharing it with us!
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panzer says:
Hi Celes
Thanks for the comment. It’s ironic that when I embark on this blog on financial freedom, then I realise that enjoying the process of moving towards financial freedom is as important as the goal itself.
In life, far too many things are unpredictable. I realise that health and happiness requires some money. But being creative and thinking of how to be happy without spending money is also important.
Be well and prosper.
seenthisscenethat says:
Hi Panzer, I agree with you 100%. Life can be fulfilling and happy without the constant pursuit of money. Take time out to smell the flowers, listen to waves at a beach, spend time with loved ones, see more places… there are just so many options to a better life.
panzer says:
Hi STST
Yup, we need money for our daily needs but happiness is something more intrinsic and should be within and doesn’t ALWAYS have to mean spending money on external things.
Be well and prosper!
Ferrero says:
well..well…well
$$ is not everything but the only thing…
Just kidding
I find this very philosopical… i read somewhere that once you realise that those numbers in your bank book are nothing but just numbers…you have gain enlightement
Sadly not many people will understand that $$ is not everything… and i don’t think they ever will
Be well and prosper (don’t accuse me of copyright HAHA)
panzer says:
Hi Ferrero
While I’ve not gained enlightenment (yet!hahha), the current economic recession and almost halving of the value of my equity portfolio shows me how transient the whole business of unrealised profits is…
Hence, I’ve become more aware to balance my life in terms of family, health and taking one day at a time.
Be well and prosper (too!)