Once you have a family, your paycheck becomes important because you now have DEPENDENTS.
Some of us already support our parents when we are single. Some of us don’t need to. Some of us have to support both parents AND our own children.
No matter what your circumstances, what is important is that your source of earned income becomes a lifeline to provide the standard of living for you AND your loved ones.
How to feed more mouths with the same income
It’s difficult to expand income in times of recession. Job security becomes important when retrenchments besides wage freezes or even cuts are common. So how do you go about feeding more mouths with the same income?
Making your money stretch requires creativity, discipline and an awareness of where your money is going. I’ve found out that the following techiques have worked for me in helping me stretch my paycheck for the 3 mouths I have to feed in my household.
1. Track your cash flows
I have to thank the authors of “Your Money or Your Life” — Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robin from writing their life changing book. Since tracking my expenses daily for the past 6 months or so, I’ve discovered where my life energy is flowing out each day, dollar by dollar, cent by cent.
It’s amazing to know how much you exactly spend which is why your savings is the amount that you see left over (if any) in a month.
If you haven’t already started, you should seriously think about doing this because only when you are conscious of where you spent your money that you will make a conscious effort to cut spending on areas that is not aligned to your life goals and that gives you satisfaction and fulfilment.
2. Consolidate expenses
Consolidating expenses means to save money by pooling resources. Instead of washing 1 cup or 1 spoon, consider batching them up to wash just after each meal time. This helps to save water and dishwashing liquid.
Other ways include making sure the washing machine is full before running or boiling water at one go with the electric kettle full.
I have found that cooking for my family is a great expense saver because for the same amount I would pay for 3 packets of rice for my family, I can cook a nutritious meal with fresh ingredients and is healthy. Rice + steamed fish or grilled meat with stir-fry vegetables is relatively easy to prepare once you get the hang of cooking. All my cooking skills were picked up from trial and error plus watching Floyd and Nigella’s cooking shows on television.
3. Save, save and save!
Making a conscious effort to save money every month is important. While our CPF contributions is a form of savings, the reality is that most of the ordinary account balances go towards funding our homes. So when we retire, we will tend to be cash poor but asset rich. Unless we monetise our homes, we would have to create other forms of retirement savings using leftover savings after feeding the mouths in our families.
I’ve eyed the Samsung Omnia and before that the Nokia E71 PDA phones for quite some time. Because of the current recession, I’ve decided to push my Treo 650 to the limit and only get a new phone when it conks out by itself. I’ve struggled over this but the recession has made me more conscious of the need to practice what I preach and to be frugal.
4. Finding other sources of income
My posts on blog monetisation show that it is possible but difficult to earn additional sources of income from blogging and related online activities. So far, my efforts allow me to learn more about web 2.0 technologies but also allow me to test out ways that work and ways that don’t work.
It’s been two over years and the money is small but the feeling is great that some of my expenses can be covered by my blogging. Of course, it’s riskier and easier (in some ways) to make money from the stock market but it involves huge risks. Sometimes you risk thousands just to earn a hundred or less if you are trading. If you are investing, there is still risks of capital losses and dividends are not guaranteed. In this low interest rate regime, some of the dividends are yielding 5-8% but capital losses on paper could be up to 50%!
How many mouths are you feeding
Share with Panzer how many mouths you are feeding and what are some ways you are doing to expand your income sources?
Be well and prosper.

jeflin says:
You are right that the responsibility that comes with having a family means every paycheck matters. That also applies to an emergency fund.
I like your third point as I have been conscious about saving money this year. I have written an article in my blog too.
http://jeflin.net/2009/02/28/does-saving-money-rank-highly-in-your-financial-priorities/
musicwhiz says:
Hi Panzer,
Another good post, thanks ! I realized now how easy it is for assets to depreciate in value and for one to lose wealth. I am being more stringent as a result and try to save more. Always good to know there are like-minded people such as yourself around !
Regards,
Musicwhiz
saVings says:
Hi Panzer,
In these difficult economic times, saving more and spending less are sound ideas that will never go out of fashion. Thanks for sharing!
Best wishes,
SaVings
Panzer says:
Hi Musicwhiz
The recent sharp corrections in the equity markets worldwide and the speed at which Singapore moved from “golden period” to recession is very scary. It really puts into perspective how fragile is the whole concept of yearly economic growth that appears to have no end.
The reality of seeing my equity portfolio value shrink by >50% makes me wake up to fact that being frugal is actually important to keep net worth intact!
Be well and prosper.
Panzer’s last blog post..OCBC Monthly Savings Account
Panzer says:
Dear saVings
It’s also a discipline that I too stray from now and then and writing about it helps to keep me centred and being thrifty and making my income stretch more to provide for the essentials for my family!
Be well and prosper.
Panzer’s last blog post..OCBC Monthly Savings Account
panzer says:
Hi jeflin
I found that talking about savings and actually practising it are two different things
It’s a daily challenge to ask myself how much of what I spend brings fulfilment, satisfaction and value to my life
Be well and prosper.
la papillion says:
Hey PG,
I’ve tried asking pple to track their expenses. It’s so difficult to have them follow it – ever had that experience? Might sure why, pple find it very hard to really do it.
Savings is the only thing that pulls up my networth, despite the falling market value of my investment portfolio
la papillion’s last blog post..Value of time
ken says:
I would like to discuss pt 3 with you panzer (save, save, save).
I think its a good time to buy for people like you who have a stable income (I assume), with all the discounts around.
e.g you could have bought a car with a cheap coe recently. if you put off buying a car, till later (eg till it breaks down), coe prices will go up…etc you may in fact end up spending more
what do you think panzer
panzer says:
Hi ken
I think really buying should be done only if you really NEED the item. I bought my car last year because my daughter was born and it helped with transport arrangements. Whilst buying a car now is cheaper, I needed it then more than I need it now so it’s somewhat challenging to change the timing given that the purchase was for a real need.
To me, savings should be done all year round partly because it’s important to have a buffer of 3-6 months of expenses/income to help mitigate unforeseen expenditures.
Each person should spend/save according to their own beliefs. You are right that cash is king now and if one is able to have stable income it is a good time to buy things you NEED now compared to 1-2 years ago. Property and car prices are relatively cheaper now then they were some time ago.
I’ll tend to be more conservative in spending because I now have 3 mouths to feed.
Be well and prosper.
panzer says:
Hi LP
Hahah… I knew the importance of tracking expenses a long time ago but never really got down to discipline myself to do it until “Your Money or Your Life” came along. It was the spark that ignited in me the flames of understanding the importance of tracking where my life energy aka “MONEY” goes.
I’m passionate about tracking expenses and encourage people to do so. But if they are not so inclined, I won’t force the issue or be dogmatic because I too was one of those who didn’t do so even when I knew it would help me in planning my finances.
Be well and prosper.